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Wednesday, February 1, 2012
lsproule@thereview.ca
Let’s be honest. There are some days, by 4 p.m., when the only words I hear in my head are: Leave me alone! Those are the days I’ve had enough and it is in this edgy state of mind that I do my grand 60-second commute home around the corner to a partner expecting a pleasant evening in my company.
If only I could find a nice way to say I need a few minutes to recover my sociable self. I am working on just that . . . because I do need more time alone.
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
lsproule@thereview.ca
Everyone who knows me knows I am a big advocate of lists. It’s all about being organized, I tell myself.
But whether you write things down or not, I think we all have lists running through our minds with the hope that they help keep us on track.
I especially like to write things down when I get to work in the morning . . . usually my day list and maybe some things I need to accomplish sometime during the week.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
lsproule@thereview.ca
Sometimes, I wish I could turn it off. That voice inside my head that doubts decisions . . . that voice inside my head that tells me that so-and-so really didn’t mean that mean thing that came out of their mouth when a part of me wonders why they said it at all. It’s the voice inside my head that says do more, talk less, work harder and get smarter.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
lsproule@thereview.ca
It was probably the looming New Year that got me thinking. As I chatted at a home-leaving party on December 29 I considered what happens inside us to make us take action. We were at a home-leaving party, which a co-worker had hosted at last. Two years after moving in to his apartment, he was moving and realized: he had never organized a promised house-warming.
No one focused on the two-year delay; all was washed away with the completion of this task, his finally hosting us at his home and the new-ness awaiting him after his move to new quarters.
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
I hope you dance. I remember the year that was the theme song selected by the Pleasant Corners Public School graduating class. As I watched the young people leave the gymnasium I considered that their entire lives lay ahead with quite possibly not much time at all to dance. 
We all know that dance has many meanings: Dance like nobody’s watching. Dance till you drop. Dancing in the dark. I’m dancing as fast as I can. You’re trying to dance around a sensitive issue.
Thursday, December 1, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
“Well,”  he says. “I’ll just play every song I know.”  We laughed.
But it wasn’t that funny, really. I had just learned that the substitute musician at the Champlain Seniors Gala was a classical guitarist currently focusing on flamenco guitar. Not exactly the easy dance music that the senior crowd was expecting that evening.
But to his credit, he dove in and recalled repertoire from his years of gigs in lounges, pubs and cruise ships. Of course, he didn’t have all those years of tunes at top of mind. Plus: the band was missing.
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
Let’s just start by saying that we at The Review do know that not everyone is part of Facebook. But what we do know is that it is a new place for us to meet with some of you and find out what you think. Sometimes we are serious and sometimes, the conversation is just for fun.
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
I refuse to eat the same thing for breakfast every day and have to confess: I inwardly sigh with a resigned kind of boredom when I hear people talk about that vitamin pill they take every day at 7:46 a.m. or that they never start watching a movie after 9 p.m. 
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
As we counted down to the Victorian Christmas Home tour, the busy-ness and tension at our offices in Vankleek Hill mounted. As the final 48 hours ticked away, and little glitches surfaced and had to be dealt with in short order, I wondered why, oh, why do we do all of this?
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
The compliments about our front page are always when we feature two or more uplifting stories. When someone wins an award, someone overcomes adversity or someone wins the lottery, you take the time to say: Good paper! Nice front page!
On the other hand, a front page plastered with explosions, fires or robberies brings little or no response. Smashed up vehicles are not popular either.
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
Maybe you have seen these: they are magnetic words and they can fill up most of the space on your refrigerator door.
While visiting someone recently, she confessed to having a illuminating moment: she removed all the words she didn’t like: dead, dismal, sad, angry, frustrated, horrible . . . you get the idea.
She only wanted to see positive, uplifting words like happy, inspire, moving, exercise, great, satisfied. Enough with the miserable words, she figured.
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
It started with the “tock” of walnuts as they dropped to the street in front of our house. The front door was open and the sounds from outside drifted in to my space.
Every once in a while, a car drove by, the sound going from faint to loud to fading away again. Sometimes, there was a loud pop as the wheel of a car popped open one of the walnuts.
Then again, the squirrels were busy eating the walnuts. I know this because our dog sits at the front door carefully watching this procedure. He growls.
From my back yard, I hear the sound of particular cars as they make their way around the block. It’s a small town, for sure.
There is the sound of the wind in the trees, which is louder, it seems to me at this time of year, because the leaves are drier.
Someone is cutting their grass. In the distance, a motorcycle picks up speed. The bell rings at St-Grégoire because church is about to begin.
As I turned my attention back to my book, for the first time, I realized that it is my voice that is reading to me. I tried imagining others narrating and could not . . . it was my voice and no other which could send the book into my mind in silent words.
I read recently that true silence is when you can hear a single sound and nothing else: like when a chickadee breaks the early-morning silence. It seems that the world is rarely a silent place these days. Depending on where you live and what you do each day, the sounds you hear are unique to your world.
But the sound of our own voice and the sounds that we expect to hear every day all around us are something we take for granted. There’s the sound of our own car which we know so well as does the family pet, who runs to the door to greet us as we turn into the driveway.
There are sounds which travel well-worn paths in our minds: our fine-tuned hearing easily recognizes the voices of friends, family and celebrities. We know the sound of our own appliances and tools. We know how doors opening and closing sound in our house, but not those of our neighbour.
We recognize songs and singers when we hear just a few notes.
We also recognize feelings behind voices: who doesn’t know the sound of sympathy in someone’s voice when we have just shared bad news with them? Who cannot detect sarcasm by the tone of someone’s voice?
And when there is an unexpected sound: that strange noise when you are alone in the house or a silly snort behind you when you are in the movie theatre, you sit up and take notice. What was that, you wonder.
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
The flashing lights warned that something bad lay ahead. At 10 p.m. on Highway 417 Monday evening, it looked like a big one: an accident.
As traffic slowed and entered the narrow strip of highway now defined by flares, I searched the darkness on each side of my car. What had happened here?
Then I saw. I passed within a few feet of a large moose lying on the road, its head at a strange angle. I felt a pang at this piece of majestic wildlife which had met its end in the headlights of busy Thanksgiving traffic.
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
We left the Silver Dollar in Toronto and joined the crowd leaving the bar where guitarist Kevin Breit had just finished performing. Breit stood outside talking to a few people but most of those who had been inside were hurrying away.
“Hey, we’re not finished yet. We’re going to play some more.” We stopped walking away and looked back to see that Kevin Breit was talking to us.
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
Who wants to go to a ploughing match? Well, said those of us who were in the know, it is much more than just a ploughing match. And from what we hear, those of you who took the risk and attended the “IPM” were surprised at all there was to see and do.
But it seems to me that there aren’t very many surprises any more. How often do you hear, “That doesn’t surprise me,” or, “That’s not surprising.” These comments are usually given voice with a tone of sarcastic disappointment.
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
I have to say : I have always thought farming was one heck of a tricky way to earn a living.
There are all the wonderful things that go with farming . . . like owning your own piece of land, tending it, watching it change with the seasons. Then there is growing your own food, raising your family in the country, creating a heritage to be passed down to your sons or daughters.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
lsproule@thereview.ca
I used to enjoy seeing that Vankleek Hill’s famous threesome known as Nettie, Georgina and Hazel out at events I was covering. These three sisters seemed to be everywhere I was: church events, festivals, historical outings, family reunions, fairs, seniors’ gatherings and more. I used to ask them where they were headed and where they had been  . . . in case I was missing something. Those were my early days as owner of this newspaper and I quickly learned who was in the know about what was happening in our community.
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